How to Love

Love is a strange feeling that can be one of the most amazing in all the world. Sometimes the emotions associated with love are blissful, and there are times when they can really hurt. In the end, love is something most of us, if not all of us, will encounter. While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself), here is a general guide to loving.

Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.

Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.

Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.

Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.

Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love.


Random Unseen life 2007, 2008, 2009-2010

Life is Indeed a constant change!

with my Lovebug Sharon and Lovely Aunt Vi

with GP, Uncle Nonie, Cuz Janet, Aira and Shawii

starring ninang Pam's Family at Market Market

With Baydo family

With Gamboa Family

Shalance With Cuz Ben and Karen

my B3 10K Family, Gerald, Bren and Alvin

My Pusong Pinoy Family

with Glenn B.

Sawiiii with Tsong Bimbo and Tsang Emsi in Tagaytay..

Together with Big Heart MR. Douglass Iness and PhotoKalye stars ;)

hala bira at the Kalibo International Aitport

Laarni, Philipp, Mara, myself and Labidoods

the fisher folks in Bora

QC Friends

Lance Love Puerto Galera

Dinner with PP again :)

My adiBro together with the three Heroes

Adi and me in Mindoro

"Constant Change"

We're on the road
We move from place to place
And oftentimes when I'm about to call it home
We'd have to move along
Life is a constant change...

The friends we know we meet along the way
Too soon the times we share form part of yesterday
'Cause life's a constant change
And nothing stays the same, oh no

Clouds that move across the skies
Are changing form before our very eyes

Why couldn't we keep time from movin' on?
Hold on to all the years before this moment's gone?
Why must we live the days at such a frightening pace?

We're all like clouds that move across the skies
And changing form before our very eyes

Have we outgrown our Peter Pans and wings?
We've simply grown too old for tales of knights and kings
'Cause life's a constant change
And nothing stays the same, oh no

Mactan Bridge Cebu

Leaving NAIA Terminal bound for Cebu

Leaving Zamboanga City.. Bound for Manila

My City of Zamboanga

Pusong Pinoy and EF

What friends are 3

First meeting with Cuz Emily (Lukso ng Dugo ) wow Phils wow us :-) 2008

Summer outing 2007 with Bro Pauly and Lyka

Inuman at Fairview 2007: Vim, Edes, Tsang Emsi and Tsong Bimbo

Enchant, Enchanting, Enchanted

Busy office hahahha : With Julie and Norby

Dinner at Seafoods Island @ Araneta Cubao, with Cazoos, Emily, Jonas and Janet

Bucoy, Bucoy, Bucoy Lukso ng dugo... Anne, Emily, Uncle Mon and Primo Gilbert

my Fliston Family :-) My Bro Ricky, Romeo, Panpang and Mamang

Zamboanga Escapade with Eloi and cuz Emily

Zamboanga city Lovers Eloi and Cud

hala sige lang

Pusong pinoy and Photo Kalye

With my Primo

@Claret school of QC with ms Lut Carlos

Enjoying my Birthday with friends and Cazoos at Barko Bar.
Emsi, Bimbo, Cuz Jonas and cuz Janet (2009)

During the Philippine Gold Quill Award
with Atty Gay Francisco (2009)

Bimbo and Vim at Pork Barrel 2007

During the Tribute to Teachers 2009 @ SMX

2006 Inuman session at Kalayaan With Pauly, Vim, Davin and Kuya Marlon

Lakwatsa sa Pampanga

Kulitan moment with FAITH Angels, Batangas

Posing posing at Ayala center Cebu

With Friends Way back Kalayaan Time :-)
Tingling, MJ, Winston and Bimbo

Spending my Holy week around the metro